"What If You REALLY CAN Save Your Marriage and
Make It Better Than It's Ever Been...Even BEFORE the Affair"
Is an affair: (check those that apply)
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What's The First Question You Have To Ask Yourself?
My dear friend,
This is very likely one of the most painful things you will ever have to endure. I know, because my husband of 29 years cheated on me.
It was devastating and it felt like my heart was being cut out of my chest. Maybe you've had those same feelings. At times I felt like I was losing my mind because I was filled with such anger. I remember wanting to hit him with my full fury and the closest thing was the fireplace tools. I scared myself so I ran into my closet and busted the iron into several pieces instead.
I felt rejected and couldn't eat. I got bone skinny and feared I would make myself really sick. I tried everything I could think of to make things right, but in the end, I couldn't take it any more.
I didn't have a resource like this. I read lots of books but none of them were about how to save my marriage. With a heavy heart I filed for divorce.
I know how painful it is so please know you are not alone in what you are going through.
But the first question you must ask yourself is, do you want to try to save your marriage.
Your answer could be a fast and furious "No!" But the fact that you have searched and found my website tells me there's a little bit of hope that maybe you can fix this horrible pain in your heart.
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Hi, I'm Kara Oh and welcome. For this conversation, I'm going to assume you're thinking that maybe, just maybe, you can save your marriage. But before we go any further, I want you to understand something about why I've written this book. I don't want you to just stay together. That's not enough. I want you to save your marriage AND make it be better than it was before the affair. I know that's a bold promise, but I know it can be done. Let me explain. |
How long has it been since you had fun together? Laughed over silly little things, played and joked with each other? Do you miss that?
Was it long before the affair?
You're not alone. Most couples lives get so busy with work, the to-do list, kids, money worries, and household chores that they slowly drift apart, unaware that it's happening, until it's too late.
But it's not too late...not yet.
The damage to most marriages starts slowly and imperceptibly.
You've probably heard that if you put a frog in a pot of hot water, it will jump out immediately. But if you put a frog in a pot of cold water and turn on the heat, he will slowly become frog soup, unaware of what was happening to him.
Couples drift apart in the same way, little-by-little, one day at a time, until finally, years down the line, you've lost touch with all the reasons you fell in love.
“I Now Have Hope” Hi Kara, I just recommended your books "Affair Repair" and "Men Made Easy" to some women in my affair support group. I have not found anything that compares to the information received in these 2 books as easy to read and follow anywhere else. So I couldn't help but share what has helped me move past the hurt and start to create the marriage of my dreams. Thank you. Ellen, San Francisco |
| “I Now Have Hope” Dear Kara, I listened to your entire "Affair Repair" audio book last night. I was positively surprised. From the advertising, I expected the step-by-step guide to be more superficial, thus less believing of whether it would work. Having listened to it, I was surprised that there is no analysing, but simply a manual of techniques to get out of all the bad routines we have developed. You have a true understanding of the profound nature of all the issues that drive couples apart and the techniques you offer to repair a marriage is exactly what we need. Georgia, Connecticut |
What If You Can Fall In Love Again?
What are the reasons you might want to stay together:
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What if I told you it doesn't matter why you want to stay together, it only matters that you do.
That's all it takes to make my program work to not only save your marriage, but actually make it better than it was before.
This is not something you can do on your own. Emotions are too raw for either of you to do what it takes to put your marriage back together.
You need this step-by-step guide because it will walk you through exactly what is required in order to save your marriage.
Introducing: Affair Repair, This ground-breaking program will take you by the hand and guide you through each step required to save your marriage. But better than that, it will help you use this painful experience to build a marriage that is so much better than it has ever been, even in the very beginning. You will learn how to turn your lives around and fall in love again. It may seem impossible right now, when you are feeling so hurt, but it can be done. My book will show you the way. |
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| • | On page 6 you'll learn what can be done when it feels like there's no hope. |
| • | You'll learn how to cope, day-to-day, while you go through each step of my program. |
| • | You'll learn a 7 step process to heal your hearts from the damage that has been done. |
| • | It's essential to start fresh, and you'll learn exactly how to do that. |
| • | On page 14 you'll learn to use 3 very powerful Communication Techniques, each designed to help you work through specific issues. |
| • | On page 21 you'll begin a 17-step process that will teach you how to see your marriage with new eyes. |
| • | On page 25 you'll be surprised to learn learn the biggest killer of romance. |
| • | Mistrust is one of the most difficult things to get over but you'll learn how to do so here. |
| • | On page 32 you'll begin to understand how it was possible for an affair to happen. |
| • | A powerful strategy to transform your marriage will be introduced on page 38. |
| • | You'll discover a simple step you can take that will shift your focus to what really matters. |
| • | In step 2 of this powerful strategy you'll be taught how to align your goals in order to turn your marriage around. |
| • | On page 45 you'll learn the difference between how men love compared to how women love. |
| • | You'll be taught communication techniques that will help you build a stronger bond than you've ever had before. One of these techniques is a game that will help release tension between you. |
| • | You'll learn how to make your differences work for you, rather than against you. |
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You'll Receive Two Additional Books The third step in the most powerful strategy I offer is so important that you will receive, as part of this program, a set of his and hers books so you can put this step into action. I understand you might not be feeling very loving right now, but trust me, before you are through going through Affair Repair, you'll understand the need for, and the value of these two books. |
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You'll Also Receive The Audio Recording Of Affair Repair
With the audio you can listen on the go or while you work out. The goal is for you to save your marriage and make it better than before. So I want you to be able to get the information in whatever way you can. So the audio is a great addition to this package. I really do want you to be successful.
There Is Nothing Like This On The Market
If you really do want to see if it's possible to save your marriage, you need to take a look at this program. And when you do, you'll see why I say, "You can make your marriage better than before the affair."
Most books on this topic just talk about getting through it. But no other program teaches you how to use what's happened to build a marriage that really truly can be better than before the affair.
You deserve to give yourself and your marriage at least a chance to see if this will work for you. It can't do any harm to see for yourself but if you don't, you could be missing the opportunity to save your marriage from self destructing.
I want to help you take that chance. I've been through what you're going through and I wish I'd had this resource when I was feeling so alone and devastated.
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You Can't Do This Alone
You need guidance to make it through this painful time. And you need hope. This is your chance to see if you really can find a way to turn your life around.
Read through "Affair Repair" and see for yourself that it really is possible to save your marriage. Do the exercises and watch your marriage transform step-by-step, day-by-day. If you take my advice to heart you really can fall in love again, begin to find the joy that has been missing and build a marriage that will sustain you long into the future.
If You Have Children You Owe It To Them
I know this is terribly painful for you but if you have children at home, they deserve to have you at least try to save your marriage. And if you can make it the kind of marriage you hoped for when you first got married, what a gift to them. Because you will be showing them how to make it through the difficult times and model to them what a successful, happy marriage looks like.
What would be the value of a program that could save your marriage? What if it really can help you build a better marriage than before the affair, better than it's ever been? Is that worth hundreds even thousands in therapy? Yes, of course.
But I want you to be able to do what therapy can't. I've been in the self-help world for 15 years and I don't know any therapist who teaches what you'll learn in my program.
What's it worth to save your marriage? Maybe thousands of dollars in therapy? If you put your heart and soul into making my program work for you, you will have the best chance possible to not only save your marriage, but literally make it better than before.
For only $37 you will have access to this ground-breaking system for saving your marriage. You owe it to yourself and you owe it to your marriage to give it a chance. If you still aren't sure, you can contact me below and ask me any questions you might have.
I've been through it and wish I had had access to this program because I'm certain I could have saved my marriage. I'm here to help and I truly want you to be successful.
* Order Now and Start Repairing Your Marriage Tonight *
You'll receive Affair Repair handbook, the audio recording,
the His & Hers Creative Ways To Say "I Love You,"
...all for only $37.
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About Kara Oh
Kara is the best-selling author of Men Made Easy, Marriage Make-Over Manual, From Flirting To Forever, How To Win The Woman You Want and is co-author of 101 Great Ways To Improve Your Life with fellow authors, John Gray, Jack Canfield, Richard Carlson, Bob Proctor and Alan Cohan.
She's Relationship Coach, Seminar Leader, Inspirational Speaker, radio and TV personality, mother of two fantastic grown children, and grandmother of a magical 13 year old grandson. And at 60, she's enjoying the best relationship of her life. "I'm living proof that at any age you can create a relationship that is sexy, juicy, and filled with more love than you could ever dream possible."
Kara has been interviewed on hundreds of radio and TV shows across the country in cities like New York, Atlanta, Las Vegas, Chicago, and Philadelphia, and given seminars in bookstores in every major (and a few not so major) city. She has been featured in magazines like Cosmopolitan and Women's World. She is an enlightening and entertaining public speaker and has traveled to all the major US cities sharing her insights about what makes men tick and how to create amazing relationships.
"The purpose of intimate partnership is for us to midwife the perfection in
each other. The point of love is to reveal to us the light inside."
-- From "Illuminata" by Marianne Williamson
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